How can i find a base and philosophy in my martial art and fighting?

i took tkd for a year but all it did was give me some concept of martial arts and there are no schools that teach anything but tkd in my area and tkd isn`t really giving me what i am looking for a base i am looking for a foundation i have trained in boxing,tkd,jujitsu i have not found what i am looking for i want a foundation in my fighting style and philosophy is how i should fight indirectly,directly,aggressive,non aggressive,with power with precision or wildly with linear attacks or non attacks to help me tell me what is your base and philosophy because everytime i fight it ends up nothing but sloppy street fighting with no base or philosophy explain yours to me and i will figure the rest out my self no smart *** or disappointing answers its a waste of me and your time. and i have no idea how or what order a fighting routine should go in so explain that at least