Girls have you ever been embarrassed or felt violated in jujitsu? I was thinking of starting?

I've trained with several women. In general, there are occasionally embarrassing moments, but generally everyone treats class like what it is (training for a fight) instead of an opportunity to fondle a member of the opposite sex. A martial arts class is like a family. I wouldn't want any sleazy dude grabbing my sister, cousin, or mom, so I don't want anyone to grab my training family, either.